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Wednesday, December 21, 2016
O Antiphons Lapbook and 12 Days of Christmas Books!
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O Antiphons
Did you know that December 17-23 are the final days of Advent and they are called the O Antiphons, which are prayers recited or sung and they are various titles for our Messiah?
"According to Professor Robert Greenberg of the San Francisco Conservatory of Music, the Benedictine monks arranged these antiphons
with a definite purpose. If one starts with the last title and takes the
first letter of each one — Emmanuel,
Rex, Oriens,
Clavis, Radix,
Adonai, Sapientia
— the Latin words ero cras are formed, meaning, “Tomorrow,
I will come.” Therefore, the Lord Jesus, whose coming we have prepared
for in Advent and whom we have addressed in these seven Messianic titles,
now speaks to us, “Tomorrow, I will come.” So the “O
Antiphons” not only bring intensity to our Advent preparation, but
bring it to a joyful conclusion. (Fr. William Saunders)" -CatholicCulture
It was only a few years ago that I started learning more about the O Antiphons and our family is still learning about this ancient tradition. I think it's one of the many treasures of our Catholic Church and it's richness in both tradition and beauty brings out the truth, beauty and goodness of Catholicism.
A few years ago I researched more about the O Antiphons and I pulled various resources together and we created O Antiphon lapbooks as a tool to learn more about them and to use the lapbooks as a prayer guide in the last days of Advent. You can read more details about our lapbooks.
A few years ago I researched more about the O Antiphons and I pulled various resources together and we created O Antiphon lapbooks as a tool to learn more about them and to use the lapbooks as a prayer guide in the last days of Advent. You can read more details about our lapbooks.

The Octave before Christmas, the Golden Nights, is when we pray the O
Antiphons at Vespers and at daily Mass. To hear all the O Antiphons
sung, be sure to visit Celebrating the Golden Nights. They are just so beautiful and it's like imagining what Heaven will be like surrounded by angelic song and praise.
This past weekend our family made our annual gingerbread house which corresponded nicely with the O Antiphon, O Adonai (O House of Israel) . And here is O Adonai being chanted. So beautiful!
12 Days of Christmas
Everyone has heard of the "12 Days of Christmas" song, but what days make up these 12 days? Is it 12 days before Christmas Day or 12 days after Christmas? Since we are actually still in the Advent season before Christmas Day and the Christmas season, the 12 days make up the days following Christmas Day to the Epiphany. I wrote a blog post What are the 12 Days of Christmas? that explains this further.
I thought I would share a great book series to help your family and friends "travel" through the 12 days of Christmas. The series of books start with "The Twelve Days of Christmas in ______". Fill in the blank with a US state (see list below) and you have a book that is fun, engaging, and educational too!
I first came across the series when I gave The Twelve Days of Christmas in North Carolina to Patty at Reasons for Chocolate for a baby shower gift during Christmas time which was few years ago! Patty does not live in NC so I thought I would give her a book from my home state as a way to share NC facts and fun with her and her growing family. I also thought it was cool to see that one of the cities highlighted was the city where I was born! :)
Here's a little peek into the The Twelve Days of Christmas in North Carolina book that I am giving my nieces (one lives in New York and my other niece lives in Australia) and my nephew and Godson from Pennsylvania got a book too!
Each book highlights the state with the popular landmarks and cities in the particular state. The map labels what each of the 12 days throughout the book are about. I really like that this teaches geography in a fun way!
Each of the 12 days is written in a letter format from a girl named Abby who is visiting her cousin, Mike, in NC. Abby is writing back home to her Mom and Dad and telling about all her NC adventures with Mike. Here on the 8th day of Christmas Mike gave Abby 8 kites a-flying so Abby writes in her letter all about Kill Devil Hills, where they flew their kites. Kill Devil Hills is noted on the map above on the East Coast of NC. She then tells her parents that they were pretending to be like the Wright brothers and goes on to give facts about the first NC flight. Each page is full of color and fun facts like this.
I have enjoyed reading our copy to my family and these books make great gifts! Don't they Patty? ;)
But what if you don't live in North Carolina and I have peeked your interest enough that you want to look for a book in another state? :)
I've got the perfect suggestion! :) Here is a list of these books about other states (in alphabetical order) in case you are looking for a last minute gift idea that is fun and educational too!
The Twelve Days of Christmas in....
Arizona
California
Colorado
Florida
Georgia
Illinois
Indiana
Iowa
Louisiana
Michigan
Minnesota
New Jersey
New York City
Ohio
Oklahoma
Oregon
Pennsylvania
South Carolina
Texas
Virginia
Washington
Washington, DC
Wisconsin
Don't see a particular state? I have searched Amazon for quite some time trying to find as many states as I could, but I might have missed a few along the way. Maybe if you search Amazon other states will pop up?
Another great book that would be a wonderful addition to your 12 days of Christmas themed books is a beautiful one I recently received to review titled The 12 Joys of Christmas. It is written in a similar format as the popular song, "The 12 Days of Christmas". It begins with "Raise the spirit of Christmas....One freshly cut tree" and builds upon each joy of Christmas ending with "Fill the table of Christmas....Twelve Christmas cookies."
Author Thomas Seibold and Illustrator Sheri McCulley Seibold are the creative husband and wife team behind The 12Joys of Christmas. Sheri is the founder and principal of Sheri McCulley Studio, a Kansas City-based design practice that develops original characters, patterns, and product concepts for a variety of manufacturers in numerous product categories. Thomas is a technology marketing specialist and manager of Sheri McCulley Studio. Each was inspired to create The 12 Joys of Christmas by their own fond and vivid childhood memories of the holiday season.
Learn more about The 12 Joys of Christmas and Sheri McCulley’s designs at Sheri McCulley Studio.
Recently my 3 year old was fussy and crying and I pulled out this beautifully illustrated book and she immediately became engaged and loved looking at all the great pictures. She enjoyed pointing to all the classical pictures and we played a "seek and find" game as I asked her to find different illustrations on each page. This book is so fun to read and helps you take in all the joys of Christmas and savor the Christmas season long after Christmas Day. The book is simple and sweet and if it can quiet my 3 year old I know it's a good book. :) The illustrations reminded me of those in The Snow Day by Ezra Jack Keats. Simple, yet full of fun and meaning.
Amazon's summary of the book: "Long after the gifts are opened, the wrapping paper discarded, the toys forgotten, it is our memories of Christmas that remain. The 12 Joys of Christmas celebrates the timeless sights, sounds, smells, tastes, and feelings of a holiday that brings families and friends together in a season of shared ideals, traditions, and lasting joys. This paperback version contains the same quality printing and just as much Christmas magic as the hardcover, in a more economical format that will be no less loved by all who receive it."
I highly recommend adding The 12 Joys of Christmas to your Advent/Christmas book collection and it can be given and read after the hustle and bustle of Christmas preparations and Christmas Day celebrations are over! You can purchase it at Amazon or at Shelly McCulley Studios Online Bookstore.
I thought I would share a great book series to help your family and friends "travel" through the 12 days of Christmas. The series of books start with "The Twelve Days of Christmas in ______". Fill in the blank with a US state (see list below) and you have a book that is fun, engaging, and educational too!
I first came across the series when I gave The Twelve Days of Christmas in North Carolina to Patty at Reasons for Chocolate for a baby shower gift during Christmas time which was few years ago! Patty does not live in NC so I thought I would give her a book from my home state as a way to share NC facts and fun with her and her growing family. I also thought it was cool to see that one of the cities highlighted was the city where I was born! :)
Here's a little peek into the The Twelve Days of Christmas in North Carolina book that I am giving my nieces (one lives in New York and my other niece lives in Australia) and my nephew and Godson from Pennsylvania got a book too!
Each book highlights the state with the popular landmarks and cities in the particular state. The map labels what each of the 12 days throughout the book are about. I really like that this teaches geography in a fun way!
Each of the 12 days is written in a letter format from a girl named Abby who is visiting her cousin, Mike, in NC. Abby is writing back home to her Mom and Dad and telling about all her NC adventures with Mike. Here on the 8th day of Christmas Mike gave Abby 8 kites a-flying so Abby writes in her letter all about Kill Devil Hills, where they flew their kites. Kill Devil Hills is noted on the map above on the East Coast of NC. She then tells her parents that they were pretending to be like the Wright brothers and goes on to give facts about the first NC flight. Each page is full of color and fun facts like this.
I have enjoyed reading our copy to my family and these books make great gifts! Don't they Patty? ;)
But what if you don't live in North Carolina and I have peeked your interest enough that you want to look for a book in another state? :)
I've got the perfect suggestion! :) Here is a list of these books about other states (in alphabetical order) in case you are looking for a last minute gift idea that is fun and educational too!
The Twelve Days of Christmas in....
Arizona
California
Colorado
Florida
Georgia
Illinois
Indiana
Iowa
Louisiana
Michigan
Minnesota
New Jersey
New York City
Ohio
Oklahoma
Oregon
Pennsylvania
South Carolina
Texas
Virginia
Washington
Washington, DC
Wisconsin
Don't see a particular state? I have searched Amazon for quite some time trying to find as many states as I could, but I might have missed a few along the way. Maybe if you search Amazon other states will pop up?
Another great book that would be a wonderful addition to your 12 days of Christmas themed books is a beautiful one I recently received to review titled The 12 Joys of Christmas. It is written in a similar format as the popular song, "The 12 Days of Christmas". It begins with "Raise the spirit of Christmas....One freshly cut tree" and builds upon each joy of Christmas ending with "Fill the table of Christmas....Twelve Christmas cookies."
Author Thomas Seibold and Illustrator Sheri McCulley Seibold are the creative husband and wife team behind The 12Joys of Christmas. Sheri is the founder and principal of Sheri McCulley Studio, a Kansas City-based design practice that develops original characters, patterns, and product concepts for a variety of manufacturers in numerous product categories. Thomas is a technology marketing specialist and manager of Sheri McCulley Studio. Each was inspired to create The 12 Joys of Christmas by their own fond and vivid childhood memories of the holiday season.
Learn more about The 12 Joys of Christmas and Sheri McCulley’s designs at Sheri McCulley Studio.
Recently my 3 year old was fussy and crying and I pulled out this beautifully illustrated book and she immediately became engaged and loved looking at all the great pictures. She enjoyed pointing to all the classical pictures and we played a "seek and find" game as I asked her to find different illustrations on each page. This book is so fun to read and helps you take in all the joys of Christmas and savor the Christmas season long after Christmas Day. The book is simple and sweet and if it can quiet my 3 year old I know it's a good book. :) The illustrations reminded me of those in The Snow Day by Ezra Jack Keats. Simple, yet full of fun and meaning.
Amazon's summary of the book: "Long after the gifts are opened, the wrapping paper discarded, the toys forgotten, it is our memories of Christmas that remain. The 12 Joys of Christmas celebrates the timeless sights, sounds, smells, tastes, and feelings of a holiday that brings families and friends together in a season of shared ideals, traditions, and lasting joys. This paperback version contains the same quality printing and just as much Christmas magic as the hardcover, in a more economical format that will be no less loved by all who receive it."
I highly recommend adding The 12 Joys of Christmas to your Advent/Christmas book collection and it can be given and read after the hustle and bustle of Christmas preparations and Christmas Day celebrations are over! You can purchase it at Amazon or at Shelly McCulley Studios Online Bookstore.
As we continue to wait for the birthday of our Savior, Jesus Christ, our mangers in our nativity sets are still missing Baby Jesus. It will be soon on Christmas Day when I will put all the Baby Jesus figures back into each manger. Our church has a large nativity set up symbolizing the anticipation of the Christ Child being born into the world soon.
My 3 year old enjoyed staring at the nativity and I love how she is reaching for Jesus' manger, a beautiful reminder of how all of us deep down long to know Truth. We are to reach out to Jesus to be in union with Him and His will here on earth so that we can be with Him for eternity in Heaven.
And one more thing...Since Christmas is so close, maybe you are thinking of doing some baking for family and friends? Be sure to check out my guest post on Heather's blog at Life of a Homeschool Mom where I wrote my post Yummy {and quick} Christmas Treats for the Letter "Y" in the 4th Annual ABCs of Homeschooling Through the Holidays series.....


Monday, December 5, 2016
Advent Book Review and Read-Alouds
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We began the second Sunday of Advent yesterday and it's been awhile since I've updated my little corner of blog land here. I last posted about St. Cecilia's feast day on Nov. 22, then there was Thanksgiving (which was a blessing, despite our little one spiking a fever the night before Thanksgiving Day), then we had to deal with my 3 year old getting over being sick and coughing a lot and using our Kleenex box supply on her one tiny runny nose. :) Before I knew it, it was the first Sunday of Advent on November 27!
Life is busy and life is full to say the least. I've been updating my blog's Facebook page often and Instagram and Twitter accounts so sometimes the blog gets the back burner for many reasons.
But despite the juggling act of family life, I thought I would share some books we are enjoy during Advent because it is when I read aloud to the family that makes family life not seem so hectic (well, when I'm not telling my younger daughters to sit still a little better and to stop chattering while I'm reading or stop doing gymnastics off the couches. ;) )
Last year I listed many Advent traditions we do as a family and we are doing many of them this year.
On this post I wanted to share a new Advent book with you and list many of the Advent book read-alouds we use as a family.
I was first introduced to Bible Characters for Advent: The Stories That Brought Us Christmas because the authors and illustrators, Theresa & Charles Pobee-Mensah, are related to a friend of mine that I have known for several years. Theresa and Charles were inspired to write this book because of the birth of their son (who was born on the first Sunday of Advent) and they wanted to "instill a Christ-centered focus in their Christmas tradition."
This is the first Advent book I've read that focuses on 25 Bible characters. Each chapter is short and a 2 page spread with brief information about the character and stories from Scripture that relate to the character. With colorful, eye-catching illustrations this book appeals to young children, but even my older children and my husband and me enjoyed looking at the fun illustrations. This book is only 58 pages long, which as a busy homeschool mom juggling a lot during Advent, the length is perfect and not overwhelming! The book covers the more well-known characters such as Adam & Eve and Noah to maybe some characters we often don't hear a lot about like Jeroboam and Rehoboam. Here are a few photos I took of the inside so you can see how the book is laid out.
I especially liked that each Bible character's page has a reference to where you can find the story in the Bible, which encourages parents and children to connect this book with actual Bible stories and the faithful fun can be extended by finding the Scripture passage in your Bible. In the Introduction Theresa and Charles give suggestions on how to read their book. Since there are twenty-five characters that lead to Christmas, the authors state "you can read one each day starting on December first, or you can read a few at a time." Bible Characters for Advent: The Stories That Brought Us Christmas would make a great addition to your home and/or church library and it's a fun, meaningful way to have your children become familiar with biblical characters that center around the Advent season.
Be sure to Meet the Authors on their website My Jesse Tree. On Theresa and Charles' site you will find more information about their book, the Jesse Tree, printable Jesse Tree ornaments that go with the readings in the book and be sure to visit My Jesse Tree Shop that includes adorable My Catholic Saint magnets! My Jesse Tree is a wonderful resource and treasure chest to start or add to your Advent traditions and Bible Characters for Advent: The Stories That Brought Us Christmas is one of many treasures you can find there! Thank you Theresa and Charles for sharing your gifts and love for our faith, family and Advent in such fun and meaningful ways!
Speaking of great books to read during Advent, we are continuing with our wrapped Christmas book tradition that we started many years ago where I wrap one Christmas book from our personal collection in purple/rose paper and my children take turns opening the books each day.
Here is our small, artificial Advent tree we put up on the first Sunday of Advent. I found my purple and rose decorations at the Dollar Store many years ago, but I recently found purple ones and rose ones on Amazon. I also find purple and rose wrapping paper each year at the Dollar Tree. The books wrapped in rose paper are those that will be read during the third week in Advent when the rose candle is lit on our Advent wreath.
I printed, cut and taped on the printable labels onto each wrapped book from Jessica at Shower of Roses.
The books that I have wrapped this year for our family's daily Advent read-aloud time are:
Nov. 27: Saint Francis Celebrates Christmas
Nov. 28: The Christmas Candle
Nov. 29: The Legend of the Christmas Rose
Nov. 30: Room for a Little One
Dec. 2: The Nutcracker
Dec. 3: The Legend of the Candy Cane
Dec. 4: S is for Star
Dec. 5: A Little House Christmas
Dec. 6: for St. Nicholas' feast day this year, I bought my children St. Nicholas and the Nine Gold Coins
Dec. 7: The Polar Express
Dec. 8: The Amazing Giving Tree Secret
Dec. 9: Little One, We Knew You'd Come
Dec. 10: How the Grinch Stole Christmas
Dec. 11: Bambinelli Sunday
Dec. 13: Lucia, Saint of Light
Dec. 14: Bright Christmas, An Angel Remembers
Dec. 15: The Family Christmas Tree Book
Dec. 17: Night Tree
Dec. 18: One Winter's Night
Dec. 19: The Crippled Lamb
Dec. 20: A Shepherd's Gift
Other read-alouds that our family also enjoy are a series of books by Arnold Ytreeide. We don't read all the books each Advent, rather we choose one book and read it, then the next year we pick another book to read in the series. We have been rotating these books for many Advent seasons now.
The titles in the photo are:
This year I bought the newest book in the series titled Ishtar's Odyssey that we are currently reading.

These family stories for Advent are definitely books my entire family enjoys hearing me read each night. Each chapter ends with a cliff hanger usually so my teens and even my husband always want me to read more than one chapter each evening. These book are also interesting because the author weaves in the main character from one book into another book. I highly recommend these stories as family read-alouds during the Advent season!
As a side note, during Lent, just before Easter, we enjoy Amon's Adventure: A Family Story for Easter by the same author as the Advent stories.

I hope some of my suggestions will help make your Advent traditions more memorable and faith-filled.
And coming up this week are some big feast days that we will be celebrating:
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Sunday, October 23, 2016
Raising Chaste Catholic Men: Book Review and Author Interview
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Sometimes you read a book that is not only a page turner,
but you feel compelled to highlight, star, circle and underline not just
sentences, but one paragraph after another.
Then you can’t contain your excitement with just making line art in the
book so you wake your husband from his restful sleep (very) late at night by
poking him in his side and politely ask demand that he listen to just one more
paragraph.
Raising Chaste Catholic Men: Practical Advice, Mom to Mom
by popular Catholic blogger, Leila Miller, is a book I recently had the
privilege to read. It got my pen moving, kept my eyes open during late night readings and filled my heart and soul with truth and gratitude. I am so grateful Miller took on this project
about issues that are so counter cultural and I’m happy to share my thoughts on
it.
There's so much I love about Miller's book that
I really could just skip writing a review and just yell “READ IT!”
But, if I was to write a longer review I’d first say that
Miller opens her book with a chapter “What This Book Is Not”. After she lays
out some disclaimers she concludes the chapter by admitting her book is not a
scholarly work, but rather “this book is the equivalent of one Catholic mom sitting
down over a cup of tea with another mom in my kitchen, to talk informally but
quite seriously about navigating this culture with your boys’ morality and
chastity intact-and to give you the confidence you need to do just that.” (pg.
8) I enjoyed how her first chapter set the mood and tone of her book and
throughout the book it definitely felt like a casual conversation about topics
that many hold dear to their hearts.
Miller’s book will bring truth, clarity and guidance to parents who seek to raise chaste, virtuous, masculine men so our young men will be equipped to put on their armor to fight the spiritual battle that rages against them in our secular world. But, don’t let the title fool you. This book is not just for mothers, but also fathers, priests, religious, youth ministers, grandparents and realistically anyone who raises boys or teaches them can benefit from the wealth of information and solid advice that Miller gives succinctly and charitably.
Some of the chapter titles include:
* Be His Parent and His Friend
* When They Are Little
* The Two Big Accusations
* The Gay "Marriage" Juggernaut
* Chastity Before and After Marriage
* Straight Talk About Masturbation
* Fear Has a Place
* Navigating Pop Culture
* Training Men Out of Manhood
* Advice From Chaste Young Men
* When Things Go Wrong
Miller’s book will bring truth, clarity and guidance to parents who seek to raise chaste, virtuous, masculine men so our young men will be equipped to put on their armor to fight the spiritual battle that rages against them in our secular world. But, don’t let the title fool you. This book is not just for mothers, but also fathers, priests, religious, youth ministers, grandparents and realistically anyone who raises boys or teaches them can benefit from the wealth of information and solid advice that Miller gives succinctly and charitably.
Some of the chapter titles include:
* Be His Parent and His Friend
* When They Are Little
* The Two Big Accusations
* The Gay "Marriage" Juggernaut
* Chastity Before and After Marriage
* Straight Talk About Masturbation
* Fear Has a Place
* Navigating Pop Culture
* Training Men Out of Manhood
* Advice From Chaste Young Men
* When Things Go Wrong
As a busy homeschool mother of 4 daughters and a teen son, I
appreciated that Miller’s book was short (just 126 pages long) and you knew
that Miller, being a busy mother (and grandmother) herself, understood that time
is limited for everyone, especially mothers.
Despite the short chapters, Miller has a gift of making her point with as few words as possible, but she explains the most complicated subjects with clarity and charity. For example, this is one of many paragraphs that I have highlighted, underlined and starred that resonated with me especially, not only because of it's message, but because Miller gets her point across simply and eloquently.
"The Catholic Church is the one voice lovingly, carefully, firmly proclaiming, whether anyone listens or not, that sex has a meaning and purpose that cannot be discarded without violating our human dignity. Even when certain members of the Church violate her teaching on human sexuality, including some of the very clergy sworn to holiness, the evil fallout and devastation wreaked upon the innocent is not a negation of but rather an excruciating confirmation of the moral law and the good of chastity." (page 38)
Miller informs and encourages the reader with wisdom and
sincerity and as a mother, I felt her book gave the boost of confidence I
needed to continue the long journey of raising a chaste Catholic son. Reading Miller’s book will give you the
encouragement you need even when things go wrong and the young men in your life
make choices that are contrary to what God and your heart and soul desires. If this does happen, Miller’s Rule #1 is “Do
not freak out!” I love this rule because there’s a lot to freak out about when
raising chaste Catholic men. Miller’s book will leave you with less and less freak
out sessions and much more confidence to tackle subject areas that Miller
herself has faced as she and her husband have successfully raised some of their
own chaste Catholic men.
If you don’t remember anything else from my review here,
remember this…Buy it, share it, borrow it, love it, live it, but most
importantly “READ IT!” I think you will
be happy you did.
If you are interested in hearing more about Leila Miller's book and hear her talk about it, be sure to click over and listen to these radio interviews that she did and you can tell she had so much fun being interviewed!
Catholic Conversations with Steve and Becky Greene on 10/4/16
Ready To Stand: Pro-Life Radio, with Cullen Herout on 10/716
Relevant Radio on 10/20/16 (Interview begins at the 12:00 mark)
I recently "interviewed" Leila Miller via email and asked her a few questions as a way for readers to gain some more insight about Miller and her amazing, highly recommended book.

photo credit
Be sure to follow Leila Miller's blog at Little Catholic Bubble and if you would like to read more reviews on Miller's book be sure to visit Amazon, Backwards in High Heels blog post, and To Love and Be Loved blog post.
If you are interested in hearing more about Leila Miller's book and hear her talk about it, be sure to click over and listen to these radio interviews that she did and you can tell she had so much fun being interviewed!
Catholic Conversations with Steve and Becky Greene on 10/4/16
Ready To Stand: Pro-Life Radio, with Cullen Herout on 10/716
Relevant Radio on 10/20/16 (Interview begins at the 12:00 mark)
I recently "interviewed" Leila Miller via email and asked her a few questions as a way for readers to gain some more insight about Miller and her amazing, highly recommended book.
1) Who/What inspired
you to write your book on this particular topic of raising chaste Catholic men?
Several moms over the course of a couple of years asked me to write about how to raise "good men" or "real men" in this crazy culture. When two wonderful moms asked me that same question within a 24-hour period last January, I decided it was time. And so I sat down and started to write.
Several moms over the course of a couple of years asked me to write about how to raise "good men" or "real men" in this crazy culture. When two wonderful moms asked me that same question within a 24-hour period last January, I decided it was time. And so I sat down and started to write.
2) Did you discuss
your book idea with your family first, especially your older children?
What were their reactions?
I did, and they thought it was amusing! And when I told my oldest three boys (who are all past puberty, two of them adults) that I wanted them to be a part of the book, I was surprised at how amiable they were to that idea! I have a feeling they are sick of the lack of good men out there, too!
I did, and they thought it was amusing! And when I told my oldest three boys (who are all past puberty, two of them adults) that I wanted them to be a part of the book, I was surprised at how amiable they were to that idea! I have a feeling they are sick of the lack of good men out there, too!
3) As a busy wife, mom
and grandmother, when in the world did you find time to write your book?
Oh, boy! Well, let's just say I am a night owl, and I don't get a lot of sleep! I usually work when everyone else is sleeping, since there is so much quiet and no distractions. But I admit that I also tend to neglect housework when I'm writing! Thankfully, I have a very supportive, hardworking husband!
Oh, boy! Well, let's just say I am a night owl, and I don't get a lot of sleep! I usually work when everyone else is sleeping, since there is so much quiet and no distractions. But I admit that I also tend to neglect housework when I'm writing! Thankfully, I have a very supportive, hardworking husband!
4) Did you receive any
spiritual direction from a priest while you were writing your book?
I actually ran the initial draft by my wonderful, holy bishop, Bishop Thomas J. Olmsted. His blessings and words of encouragement just put me over the moon! He has been a fan of my blog for some time, and so he has always been an encouragement to me, someone who likes my work. It's such a consolation, because I would not want to write anything without my bishop's blessing and approval. He is just an incredible shepherd!
5) Did you have to fight any spiritual battles as you pursued this topic that is so counter cultural?
I actually ran the initial draft by my wonderful, holy bishop, Bishop Thomas J. Olmsted. His blessings and words of encouragement just put me over the moon! He has been a fan of my blog for some time, and so he has always been an encouragement to me, someone who likes my work. It's such a consolation, because I would not want to write anything without my bishop's blessing and approval. He is just an incredible shepherd!
5) Did you have to fight any spiritual battles as you pursued this topic that is so counter cultural?
Great question!
This one went pretty smoothly, praise God, but I already know that the
spiritual battle is coming with my next book, in which I will be giving a voice
to the adult children of divorce. That spiritual onslaught began as soon as I
simply made the announcement and asked for contributors (who came out of the
woodwork, by the way! About a hundred adult children of divorce contacted me in
just two days after I said something on Facebook). A small but fierce amount of
opposition and hostility came out, too. I covet your prayers!
6) Which chapter did
you enjoy writing the most?
I loved writing the chapter on "Being His Parent and His Friend," because it was so unexpected to me, believe it or not. I didn't expect to write anything like that, but it occurred to me that much of what has brought "success" in raising chaste Catholic men is the friendship we share, parent to child. And it also goes against what used to be my own mantra, "Children need a parent, not a friend!" In the chapter, I explain how to get a balance there, and why it's so important.
I loved writing the chapter on "Being His Parent and His Friend," because it was so unexpected to me, believe it or not. I didn't expect to write anything like that, but it occurred to me that much of what has brought "success" in raising chaste Catholic men is the friendship we share, parent to child. And it also goes against what used to be my own mantra, "Children need a parent, not a friend!" In the chapter, I explain how to get a balance there, and why it's so important.
The least?
I didn't love writing the chapter on masturbation, because, let's face it, it's an icky topic. Yuck. But we need to speak about it. We need to know how to approach our boys. We need to realize that in a society of ubiquitous porn, masturbation becomes an addiction just like the porn itself. So, while it was an unpleasant chapter to write, it was also one of the most interesting and hopeful, believe it or not.
I didn't love writing the chapter on masturbation, because, let's face it, it's an icky topic. Yuck. But we need to speak about it. We need to know how to approach our boys. We need to realize that in a society of ubiquitous porn, masturbation becomes an addiction just like the porn itself. So, while it was an unpleasant chapter to write, it was also one of the most interesting and hopeful, believe it or not.
7) In one of the
chapters at the end of your book you have young men answer questions concerning
living chastely in a secular world. Some of these men were your own grown sons.
Did you learn anything new about your own sons after they answered the
questions? Did anything they said surprise you?
I was surprised that they were so willing to talk about it, and didn't fight me! I was thrilled with the depth of the answers, and it made me want to fall on the ground in gratitude to God that they "get it." God is merciful! I was taken by the very different "mood" of each boys' contribution, and I marveled at that, really appreciating how uniquely God has created all of our boys. It was quite a treat, and very moving for me to realize that these are my babies, all grown up.
I was surprised that they were so willing to talk about it, and didn't fight me! I was thrilled with the depth of the answers, and it made me want to fall on the ground in gratitude to God that they "get it." God is merciful! I was taken by the very different "mood" of each boys' contribution, and I marveled at that, really appreciating how uniquely God has created all of our boys. It was quite a treat, and very moving for me to realize that these are my babies, all grown up.
8) If you could tell
parents and anyone who works with young boys/men one piece of advice about
raising chaste Catholic men, what would it be?
Be completely open to answering any question. Make sure that they know you are always available to talk, and that no topic is off-limits. They should never, ever be embarrassed to come to you with a question or problem, even and especially in the area of sexuality.
Be completely open to answering any question. Make sure that they know you are always available to talk, and that no topic is off-limits. They should never, ever be embarrassed to come to you with a question or problem, even and especially in the area of sexuality.
9) Please feel free to
share anything else you would like others to know about your project and
book.
Although the subtitle is "Practical Advice, Mom to Mom," the book is quite practical for fathers, too. I didn't write it specifically with fathers in mind, but the feedback from dads has proven to me that it's just as helpful for them as well!
Although the subtitle is "Practical Advice, Mom to Mom," the book is quite practical for fathers, too. I didn't write it specifically with fathers in mind, but the feedback from dads has proven to me that it's just as helpful for them as well!
Thank you Leila Miller for writing Raising Chaste Catholic Men: Practical Advice, Mom to Mom and for taking time to answer my interview questions!
God bless!
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